9 years today.
But the years move on and I met Dan. This may or may not be right, however… I have always called myself a “Jew”. I am not a cultural Jew but a religious Jew, in the sense that I grew up knowing God. I was chosen. I grew up with the stories of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. I knew all the rules/law, the 10 commandments. I knew what was expected. I knew who was chosen and who was not. I was religious since diapers and I knew Jesus. (in reality, Jesus’ rules are way harder to follow… it’s because they are not rules but a Way of life)
Dan was and is great for me. It’s because he is a gentile. (I dare write nice things about Dan because I know he reads this blog) When I was first told about Dan, he was described as “bizzaro johno” like bizzaro superman, everything that superman was, bizzaro superman was not. Everything Johno was”bizzaro johno, Dan” was not. We were the same but opposite.
Dan and I have many great conversation. Over 9 years of ministry, his baptism is still at the top of my most beautiful moments. Since that time, Dan has offered conversation that took me out of my “religious shell” and showed me God to the gentile. He has a wonderful spirit which is the Lord in him and he allows that to be used. I have so many great thoughts about Dan, I wish I could share them all in detail. (I might include them in my book)
It’s funny that my greatest relationships have not been with teens, but the fathers of teens, like Don Wheeler.
Don grew up like me. Religious. He and I meet for coffee each Wednesday morning at 5:30 AM to share, listen and pray. I love his desire to explore God anew. I think Don is the one who can best relate to me and my background. We both find ourselves saying, “AH HA!” and things like, “you know, it really doesn’t say that in the Bible.” and “I’ve never looked at it that way before.” Our journey is not over yet, I believe it’s just getting started.
It’s funny to think back when all I really wanted to do was make “SPIRITUAL GIANTS” out of the teens. I really don’t know what that means today. What I desire and have experienced with these teens and these fathers is honesty.
Since I’ve been here there is another father I’ve come to know. He is at the top of close friends. He may not know how much he has caused me to search the scripture, pray and listen but my friend Nir, who lives in Jerusalem, has given me so much. An entire friendship via the internet. I would have never thought. (Nir, the stories you have shared with me about your son and daughters, you wife. You have given me an important image of the word father. You may not like it and we might not always agree, yet in all of this the Lord has worked through you to minister to me… and that’s ok with me)
Though these men, God has worked. They each have challenged me in ways that have allowed me to see ministry differently.
To be honest, I really don’t think I am very good at youth ministry. Actually, I surprised it’s still a title on my business card. (I make my own business cards, so i guess it’s my fault) As I get older I have a hard time keeping up with all the new music, movies, what’s in and what’s out. Clothes in fashion and those out. The latest lingo I’m afraid to use because I’m still not sure if “fo Shizzle” is a cuss word.
I do love teens, I can’t see myself doing anything else. (although the opportunities always show their faces) I want to die working with teens… which could be sooner that later it I attempt anymore world record slip-n-slides or champion dodge ball tournaments.
I love students who are
radical, irresistible and revolutionary. God started youth ministry in Numbers chapter 14.
26 The LORD said to Moses and Aaron: 27 “How long will this wicked community grumble against me? I have heard the complaints of these grumbling Israelites. 28 So tell them, ‘As surely as I live, declares the LORD, I will do to you the very things I heard you say: 29 In this desert your bodies will fall—every one of you twenty years old or more who was counted in the census and who has grumbled against me. 30 Not one of you will enter the land I swore with uplifted hand to make your home, except Caleb son of Jephunneh and Joshua son of Nun. 31 As for your children that you said would be taken as plunder, I will bring them in to enjoy the land you have rejected.
Nineteen and younger. God became a youth minister.
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